The festive season is upon us, a time filled with joy, cheer, and, let’s be honest, a whole lot of stress. With the rising cost of living, many of us are feeling the pinch and wondering how we’ll manage to afford all the gifts on our kids’ wish lists.
But what if we told you that the best Christmas gift you can give your children this year doesn’t come with a price tag? It’s the gift of your presence.
The power of presence
As Triple P experts highlight, the real magic of the festive season lies in the quality time we spend with our loved ones. It’s about creating lasting memories, fostering strong bonds, and cultivating gratitude.
Professor Matt Sanders, founder of Triple P, emphasizes that while it’s natural to want to shower our children with gifts, it’s the simple moments of connection that truly matter. By taking the time to enjoy each other’s company, we’re not only boosting our children’s wellbeing but also strengthening our own.
“After what has been a stressful year for many families in our community, parents, carers, and children will benefit from giving the Christmas gift that truly lasts a lifetime — the security, joy, and confidence that comes from knowing you are truly loved and valued,” Professor Sanders said.
Presence over presents: A mum and son celebrating Christmas together on the beach
Simple ways to prioritise presence
So, how can we shift our focus from presents to presence? Here are a few ideas from Triple P:
- Take time to enjoy the season together. This could include decorating your house, listening to music, sharing jokes, or going for a walk.
- Inspire kids to be grateful. Model being gracious by saying thank you when receiving presents and showing children how to be appreciative in those everyday moments.
- Start a family tradition. These could be free or low-cost, such as checking out the local holiday lights or having a festive baking session. Spread the joy by sharing the results with friends and family, being grateful for the opportunity to enjoy the moment together.
- Encourage kindness and goodwill. If your children buy or make gifts, or do something nice for someone, praise them for thinking of others and showing festive spirit.
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